Need advice on my existing Investments & Financial Planning

Hi, Thanks for helping us all the people. I apologize in advance for this long post, but I do need this. I need help with some financial planning. I'm 27 and joined my first job (some IT company) in August 2016 which pays 50k monthly. Currently I have no loans. I will be married within 18-24 months, most probably to a non earning person. My father is a salaried employee, so right now I don't send any amount to home. But he will retire at end of next year and he does not have much savings, so after some time I will take care of my parents also. I am not able to think of my long term financial goals. Maybe a car in 3-4 years and a flat in 10 years. Investment : 6k sip AXIS ELSS, 5k sip Birla Tax Relief (total 11 k) going on from 3 months. I have applied for a PPF account, in which I plan to invest 1k per month from April. In addition, from February, I will be spending 1k per month in some Sahara plan (due to some relative) Also, I have invested in some mutual funds (in nov-dec) without doing much research - UTI Healthcare and Pharma - 12k, ICICI Long Term Gilt - 7k (currently at 6% loss), DSP Blackrock MicroCap - 5k, Birla SunLife MIP Aggressive II - 6k. All my MF investments are regular plans, done through a distributor, which was not showing any direct plans. But now I can invest in some AMC's using CAMS. Now my queries, 1. I am thinking of stopping both my regular SIP's and investing in their direct plans from April, more or less same amount. Any advise? 2. I still need to invest around 80k for 80C deductions. I can do that but it will consume all liquid cash in my account. So, should I invest all the 80k or invest only let us say 50k and pay 3k as tax? 3. From above point, where to invest? I was thinking 10k in PPF and rest in ELSS. Also, while spending in ELSS, should I put all in one ELSS fund or spread it across 2-3 ELSS. 4. I need advise on UTI Healthcare and ICICI long term gilt fund i invested in - should i redeem them with exit load, bear the small loss and invest somewhere else or should i let the 1 year complete and see? 5. I also want to do stock trading. I am applying in Zerodha to do so. I am ready to take medium risks but also can do only a little research. What approach should i follow? Is following recommendations sites like axisdirect (including target and stop loss) an ok strategy? Or should I wait for some more time? I should tell you I am the person who checks his portfolio more than once in a day. 6. From April onwards, after all my expenses and investments, i will be remaining 5k-8k with me per month. I want that to build up the emergency liquid cash in my account (which after investing for tax rebate is going to be 0) but i also want better than the 4% interest on savings account. Stocks maybe? FD's? Any advise? 7. Finally, considering my family background and the future situations what I have listed, how should I approach my investment.